A few months ago, NeoInsight wrote in asking questions about his marriage to his Emotionally Dissociated wife. If you haven’t been following the comments that followed the post, NeoInsight has not only divorced his wife, but has also left the Drama Triangle, too, which meant leaving another friendship behind as well. You can read about his journey in the post entitled Questions about Emotional Dissociation which was updated just today.
It is an interesting thing that our difficulties in our relationships always come back to ourselves. It’s very easy as Empaths to see the Emotionally Dissociated friend or partner as the problem, and believe me, they can be really aggravating. But, the more interesting question is why are we in the relationship? What are we getting out of it? What is our part in creating the problem? These questions take the focus to where it belongs–our own healing. And when we heal ourselves, we change our vibration, and then everything around us changes, including our relationship that was the original focus. Sometimes the relationship ends, but sometimes it also magically transforms.