Sometimes
a client comes to me with a problem that cannot be fully solved
with an illumination or with a fluid extraction. They may
find that they have little control over the situation unfolding
in their lives. They may also notice that the people in their
family have the same problem, or a permutation of the problem.
Usually when I see this, I suspect my client needs to have a generational
imprint removed.
Our
family not only passes on to us their genetic material, but they
can also pass on to us their energetic contracts that they have
made in their lives, which can keep their descendants bound.
This usually was not done intentionally or maliciously, but came
about from some traumatic wounding. Releasing a person from
these old contracts means not only healing the client, but also
healing his relatives, especially the ones who have already crossed
over.
One
example of this is a client who was having a hard time stepping
out of his family dynamic of family sticks together no matter what.
He understood intellectually that the family group think was creating
unhealthy emotional situations within his family and was stressing
his marriage by making him feel guilty for putting his marriage
first instead of his family obligations. He knew he had to
change his behavior, but he could not get over feeling like he was
doing something incredibly wrong even though he understood he was
doing what was best for him.
When
I did a soul retrieval for him, I journeyed to the "underworld",
which is where all the lost soul parts, old contracts, and ingrained
beliefs of our psyche are stored. In locating the original
wounding, I did not find my client, but instead found a grandfather
who had been orphaned at an early age. This grandfather was
holding very tightly to a teddy bear and was traumatized by loneliness
and feelings of abandonment. The contract this little boy
had written was that in order to feel loved and included, family
must hold together no matter what. There was also a secondary
contract or expectation that family really need to pull together
because the most important people die early. Within the place
where the contract was held were all the descendants of this grandfather,
including my client. They appeared to be bound in chains.
As the
shaman I told the grandfather that his contract was preventing his
grandson from having the life that he really wanted, and in fact
was bringing him the opposite of love and connection. The
grandfather was horrified by this realization and agreed that the
contract needed to be broken and rewritten. I assured the
grandfather that the reason, or the benefit, of having such a contract
would stay in place, which was the ability to make connection and
community and feel loved in the world. Then I broke all the
chains between all the relatives in the family and freed my client.
I also rewrote the contract to say that my client was free to form
the relationships he wanted so he could have the love he needed
in the world. I destroyed the contract about dying at an early
age.
(It
turns out that my client's grandfather was an orphan and that the
grandfather, uncle, and my client's mother had died early from either
heart disease or breast cancer, both of which are heart chakra issues.
My client's contract was associated with the heart chakra, too.)
When
I went to look for the soul part of my client that had been lost
because of the contract, I found a similar little boy and the grandfather
but this time he was at peace and healed. The grandfather
gave me the teddy bear and also told me to tell my client that the
bear represented what he really wanted to pass on as a legacy.
I was also given a polar bear to take with me to help my client
have the strength to maintain his own personal will power.
When I returned from the journey I "blew" the soul part
into the heart chakra, along with the power animal. I could
see my client respond to the added energy.
Usually
it takes a few weeks or even months to fully integrate a soul part.
But, my client had been in preparation for the return of this soul
part for more than a year, and was ready to immediately incorporate
it. (He had changed whatever behaviors needed to be changed
but simply wasn't at peace with the changes.) By the next
day he was feeling centered, empowered, and at peace with his decisions,
and his relationship with his extended family completely shifted.
He was able to fully commit to putting his own needs first, then
the needs of his marriage, and finally the needs of his family in
third place without feeling any guilt or feeling wrong for doing
so.
What
is amazing about removing a generational imprint is that all members
of the family are healed in some way. If the family members
have already crossed over, they are completely freed of the contract,
so when they next incarnate, they do not have to live through it
again. Any future children the client has will not have the
contract. Any relatives that are living will be affected in
some way---some may be completely healed, but usually they may need
a little work done themselves. In every case, every person
is affected positively in some way. And as one family member
breaks the cycle and begins doing something new, this by itself
ripples out onto the group.
Sometimes
our underworlds contain punitive beliefs or other dark things, and
an underworld extraction is needed, similar to an extraction of
a generational imprint. Click
here to read more about underworld extractions. Click
here to read more stories of resolved underworld contracts and
their affect on clients and their families.
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